Are you a worldly woman? She is experienced, fascinating, and undeniably irresistible to know. The worldly women has secrets that help her successfully navigate through many adventures, both personal and professional. Here are five of the secrets of the worldly woman, so you can see if you are a worldly woman, or how you can start if you aspire to be one!
1.Thinks for herself: She has learned how to feel, think, decide, then act. If she is unsure of how do make decisions, she asks for help with this process, but does not allow others to decide for her. She weaves together the callings of her heart and instinct with the wisdom in her mind to make the best possible decisions for herself and the greater good. She values her own ideas, and accepts ideas from others graciously as valuable and important. She views herself as a thinker, and utilizes the best of her creative self in all areas of her life and relationships.
Do you see yourself as a thinker? How so? If not, how come?
2.Takes Risks: She takes healthy risks, pushes her own envelope towards greatness. She solves problems, overcomes barriers, plans ahead so that she can enjoy all of the benefits of being who she is, and at times being different and living outside of the box. She does not put herself in danger, but rather allows herself to take chances, to try new things in business and in her home and community. She thinks before she leaps, but if it feels right to her, she will be off into uncharted territory, accepts her setbacks, and reaps huge benefits when her new ventures bear fruit.
Do you take healthy risks? Do you ask for what you need and go for it, or do you wait for others to do things for you, or wait and hope that things “happen”?
3.Takes Care of Herself : The worldly woman knows self care is the key to abundance for herself, her family, her business ventures, and in her community. She realizes the difference between me first and me only, and has plenty of energy to utilize her gifts. She also models this for others, encouraging those around her to prioritize their needs. She has overcome her rescue fantasies, and stopped trying to please everyone else at her expense. She is able to balance work, play, and relationships. She connects with others and has a good support system. She strives to thrive, and almost always succeeds!
What can you do today to take care of yourself? Are you eating, sleeping, socializing in proper amounts, or do you run yourself ragged?
4.Trend sets: The worldly woman is ahead of her time. She studies the world around her and the world within her. She stays ahead of the curve in her knowledge of technology, business, world affairs, community news, and is always generating new ideas to make the world a better place for herself and others. She has no time for gossip, or tearing herself or others down. She is busy living her life with purpose, and embraces each day with passion and enthusiasm. She is constantly learning, seeking, and joining with others who share her vision, and learning from those who have different visions.
Are you a pioneer? Do you have any good ideas you can put into action now?
5.Travels: The worldly woman always makes time to see the world! She is naturally curious, and wants to see other places and get to know other people from around the globe. She travels to faraway lands, takes time to rest and rejuvenate herself. She plans for vacations, getaways, and even local adventures that will nurture her creativity and need to relax. By car, plane, boat, RV, hot air balloon, or SUV, she roams the earth to find new adventures, to see what can only be imagined or two dimensional on a TV or computer screen.
Some worldly woman food for thought: What is your worldly woman secret?
Do you take time to travel? Make this year your year! What worldly woman qualities do you possess right now? I’m sure if you think about it, you have at least one worldly woman quality. What qualities do you admire in others that you want to develop? You can start today working on one aspect of yourself. If you take action, you will feel so much better! One small change today can set you on the worldly woman path. If you find you have difficulty following through, perhaps a coach, counselor or mentor can help you through!